You may wonder why we are called ” TWEENS “. This comes from the word “between” for we are between the adulthood and teenage period. We are not adults nor considered as teens we are just “between.”
Most tweens and teens of today would know what this words means. Sometimes it’s the center of gossips in classrooms, benches, malls parks, canteen and even powdering in the C.R.
Everybody needs love. People need other people to support them and accept them no matter what they do. They place them into a position to grow and be happy with themselves. You hear stories about couples helping each other through tough times. You hear about families being supportive to career’s achievements and failures . Everybody has heard of puppy love, head over heels inlove of crazy in love. People making drastic decisions about their love ones. In love songs, we hear about not being able to live with someone. We even hear about people committing suicide because someone left them.
“When the hearts fills up the brain is emptied” – – – Anonymous. Though heart can never think and take decisions since it does not hold the power for doing it, it is the brain, which we call as mind has the control on our decisive or indecisive thinking, to commit and achieve on anything from love and joy, pain and pleasure, grief and despair, patience and emotion, kind and cruel, whatever it is we become dumb when it becomes to love for our actions are without thought and immediate.
Everyday, everywhere, people fall inlove . But just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling inlove?
I know hundreds of people would say the magical words ” I LOVE YOU ” –but more often than not, the truth is . . . . I AM INLOVE WITH YOU.
The difference between being inlove with someone and having someone, if a person says he is inlove with you, he means he likes you for who you are and he fell inlove with you because of the present you. This kind of love is temporary and last only as long as the fairytales last. When fairy god mother comes in the midnight to whirl as back to reality, we see the heartache of such relationship.
But if a person say he loves you, he means that he loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. When he says he loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him too or if you are in love with the idea of being INLOVE.