Great love is certainly unusual. All relationships have more or less favorite people around, as we all more or less sentimental life, although essentially ignore most great love, even if he imagines that were part of it. In fact, what is really important and durable, begins as friendship. Along the way, some people we become close and intimate pleasure and virtue, why not admit it, the material used. And how difficult and carefully get to create a series of feelings, so they can be quickly affected in ways downright stupid. Love is, in fact, deeply contextual, as beautiful in poetry, as in reality. How many times it happens that relationships to open up simply by changing domicile or place of work? How many bonds hold for the simple reason that they have come to be verified through a severe trial and elimination? How many are easily replaceable and disappear when the physical absence of one of the partners? Or, in the opposite version, many do not take the form of reckless acts because of inability or refusal to return to celibacy formula, the previous couple? I do not think, however, that love is far less common than in the old, but it is possible that establishing relationships to be more casual today, because so-called “rhythm of life” – to organize activities and free time. There are fewer than those who rarely find time off and then we rush to “kill” with who knows what concerns they call “disconnect” or “weekend”. The surplus assets vertigo, love does not have the look, leaving more of an occupant of free time. We can therefore talk about partners weekend. But we can talk about love in this context? On the other hand, there are many cases in which some couples partners occupations consist of at least similar, if not identical: doctors among them, also actors, etc.. People of the same “special” relationships inevitably deep linking, which is easily maintained as a result of “attacks” social unfounded. More beautiful than that, in these cases involved fractures generally reasons principles and even if the final stop, stay somewhere ideal plan, so in a field of silence (so that they never disappear entirely). What happens when love “which moves suns and stars” (Dante) comes to be misunderstood, revealing eternal human folly to hope for victory in battle with feelings? What happens when love becomes obsession that will act as an act of ambition? Love-love is characterized by mutual attraction, the existence of barriers to fulfillment and violation of social rules sentiment alike. It’s a fact that man is tempted to “taste” what is forbidden? Or that his feelings are amplified as it reduces the tendency of others to accept his options? Lovers live a state of continuous excitement that is the source of inner imbalance. This is when required farther away from them, that feeling to keep the intensity and coordinates which resulted as “a good omen”. Love-passion is accompanied by suffering, madness and death temptation, without exaggeration it. There are, in fact, these two contradictory impulses, in which destiny is great love: erotic instinct and instinct Thanatos, which govern the human psyche (Thanatos, god of death in Greek mythology). And nests in my arms when you, when you look, try to guess what he wants, touch it, learn it by heart, only then can you say you love, which can not be altered by any form of expression that you ” animal “. Love is nothing but self-reflection in the one you love. Therefore he start doing the things no less important to you. But love inevitably involves suffering, as it validates feelings. Suffering is nothing but perpetuate fear to the possibility that one next to you to minimize the intensity with which you invest some feelings in your couple. And fear is necessary especially as a result of ignorance of self. In real life, you can never affirm and confirm with certainty yourself, because you’re a half rapidly query about himself, about the world and which is built step by step in the journey of discovery.