This article is about passion killing in namibia, looks at the causes of passion killing.
We have heard about more and more deaths in this world. Each an every time we have heard from media about individuals killing their partners and so.
In this article, i will give the main reasons as to why our community is falling victims of passion killing and i will also outline the causes, challenges and amiable solution to address this issue with the following questions
what exactly is passion killing?
A crime of passion refers to a criminal act in which the perpetrator commits a crime, especially assault,muder or rape, against someone because of sudden strong impulse such as sudden rage or heartbreak rather than as a premeditated crime. what is happeng in nmibia , the definition could not be quite right.
In Namibia, the definition of passion killing according to what is happening right now is quite different from this. Passion killing in Namibia is the act in which an individual fall victims to death as a result of one partner killing either his/her partner because of strains in a relationship , love of properties, selfishness and unfaithfulness.
we have heard of many cases in Namibia about passion killing and yet remain a big issue in the population at large. The question is , why are people being killed specially woman? why do you think people are being killed?
1. PEOPLE ARE BEING KILLED FOR THE LOVE OF MONEY.
In many cases lots of people are killing and being killed for money. Both two partners have their own reason as to what love is. some love money in a relationship and the rest comes as fantasy, while others love the facial appearence of their lovers or beauty and the rest comes as fantasy. In recent cases that happened , you can see that money plays role in a relationship. Most of them say , she ate all my money and now she is cheating on me with some one else. if you went to an extend of killing your partner for property and money, would you consider that person who knows what love is?
Girls have this tendency of loving some one because of what they have , and mostly because of money. This is another reason why woman are falling victims of passion killing in our country. How ever, i my self do not blame girls at all, because its insane to kill someone because of money they have eaten and other staffs.
Why are we men so very good at sharing our money and properties with some one that we hardly know? We as guys have different perception of what love is, and how we want to be loved. We spent our money on people that we hardly know ,thinking that we finally find true love and settle off ,only to find out that we dont know who our lovers are.
2.SELFISHNESS
Another element that leads to passion killing is that guys are too selfish. You only cares about your money and properties without even thinking about others. Think about your family that loves you that much and everything so as to say, do not bite figures that feeds you. Imagine what sadness and empty space you will live behind your family members and everyone that you love.
3.NEGLECT OF COUNCELLING
There are thousand of people around that can help individuals with many different problems, but yet they dont play a vital role in our country. Leaders, teachers, pastors and many other social workers are always there to help but dispite people neglecting this reasons can also be one of the main issues.
OTHER REASONS WHY PASSION KILLING OCCURS ALSO BECAUSE:
- We do not know who we are as individuals
- not seeking help from other people
- loving money above all
- lack of love lies within our heart, no mercy
- perception of what love is
- gods love
- eye blind folden
- the list is endless
Is there any solution to this?
My self personally, i dont believe in many things in this world other than god who created me. This is not something that we as a nation should do about first, it all lies with each an every individual in this country. It have to do with who we are , what we are and who we want to be.
Im against those people that say the goverment must do something. This issue lies between among us, within our hearts and beyond our hands. This issue is all about finding love in our hearts , be as you were created and only than you can change your own believe about yourself and for others.
We need to look for god,s love, we need to have that inborn love that we have and only can we stop this issues if we change who we are and start loving one another as brothers and sisters.
Lets all be honest with one another and learn how to deal with people of different manners as this is the only way we can eradicate this fearful evil thing.