Mental Abuse on Triond: Flag It Buttons and Aiyanna
Mental abuse is on the rise. Content sites have always had a knack for abuse. I refuse to be a part of it. If I don’t speak out, I might as well consider myself an abuser as well. The flag it button, is a window of opportunity for people like Aiyanna. She is the spiteful, abusive, spam queen who has won favor with Triond management. What am I talking about?
I’m talking about the fact that, mental abuse, mind games and cyber-stalking are fine with Triond but not with me. Read on, my friends….while I’m still here.
Mental abuse is about power and control. I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m a member of a writing site that has no qualms about abusing members in this fashion. In addition, they allow others to cyber-stalk, and abuse writers who’ve been loyal to Triond for years.
I’m a member of a manipulative and lying website, that expects a handful of writers to police every article. Rather than review and edit articles themselves.
Yes, I’m a member of a site that allows and promotes cyber-bullying. A writer named AIYANNA insists on cyber-stalking, and leaving abusive comments on articles written by LOVE DOC, JIMMY SHILAHO AND LOVELY HONEY. LOVE DOC is openly outraged. I don’t blame her. I’ve been a witness to this abuse and if I say nothing, I might as well be abusing LOVE DOC, JIMMY SHILAHO AND LOVELY HONEY myself. As the word of God says in Amos 3:3.
Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
Well, let it be known, I don’t agree with Triond’s abusive behavior. I don’t agree with AIYANNA’S abusive stalking. I will not continue to remain silent, as others are manipulated, hood-winked, ignored and emotionally abused.
This AIYANNA/ANISHU AKA-AAA on some kind of mission to tear down the Trionders she targets. Aiyanna, the SPITEFUL SPAM QUEEN has been spamming and abusing to her heart’s content.
Both LOVELY HONEY, LOVE DOC and JIMMY SHILAHO have been under her relentless attacks, she has been spamming them for months. One thing her targets seem to have in common is notable talent and longevity on Triond.
I want to know why this, God awful person AIYANNA is being allowed to conduct her scammy, crummy, merciless, abusive, scam fests. Triond needs to BAN HER IP ADDRESS TODAY.
Allowing ourselves to be abused by twisted spammers is not a sacrifice we need to make. Allowing ourselves to be abused on a writing site does nothing for humanity. This is not a situation where we must turn the other cheek.
I have witnessed Triond ignore this situation with their devil may care attitude. Triond couldn’t care less about whose being abused by cyber-stalkers like AIYANNA on their site. Their message to all is: We don’t care, shut up and keep writing and getting your colorful buttons.
Listen! If we don’t stand for something, we’ll put up with anything.
I understand today, that I’m a member of a site that lies to it’s writers. Expecting them to believe a flag it button can work. Abusive spammers like Aiyanna, may get sick satisfaction from such a button. Let the administration edit all articles and stop passing the buck.
I’m a member of a site where the malice minded or those who have not thought things through, believe members can police every single article on Triond. I’m a member of a site that plays mind games. Here’s why:
The New Flag it Button
1. Why does Triond believe a few handful of members will be able to police Triond. Do they truly believe this or are we being manipulated?
2. Why are some writers delighted with this new tool of mental abuse?
3. Why is it that some writers are jubilant and have their fingers ready to flag happily and with no remorse?
4. Why wouldn’t sincere writers, with a heart for others, insist that Triond do the policing, flagging and editing?
5. Why does Triond want writers to use their own judgement, as opposed to having qualified editors handle submitted articles? What is their underlying reason for this?
6. Articles should be reviewed by live editors, but why has Triond passed the buck to it’s writers?
The flag button is an evil tool for haters and cyber-criminals like Aiyanna.
7. How will Triond keep up with all the flagged articles? Please tell me! Triond has allowed LOVE DOC to be continually abused by AIYANNA. This same AIYANNA latched on and is mercilessly spamming writers JIMMY SHILAHO AND LOVELY HONEY, she is faithfully harassing them to no end.
Here’s the rub: Aiyanna has stated in Trionds blog that she just loves the flag button. How ironic and how revealing is that?
This traveling, abusive, hate filled, spam queen must be stopped!
Nothing has been done about this abusive situation. AIYANNA continues to spread her strange, unwarranted venom against the above writers with her mentally abusive commenting.
I have witnessed this AIYANNA person, go from Triond to Wikinut leaving her trail of hurtful commenting on Love Doc’s articles. This women’s commenting is beyond sharing an opinion, AIYANNA is a stalker. HER IP address must be BANNED.
I’m truly tired of Triond and the web. There are no safeguards against cyber-stalking and scamming. No one knows how to stand up, or refuses to stand up for content writers and web users.
All of the above goes against my faith. I can’t sit by idly, and continue to be a member of a site, that is emotionally abusive. They do nothing about cyber-stalking, they take forever to respond to emails, they want writers to do their job. They pretend that Triond writers are superhuman, and can police every article on Triond.
They expect us to believe this. The malice minded, or those who have not thought about the implications, of a free for all, flag it button, believe it. Those with good sense, know that Triond needs to review and edit articles themselves and stop trying to pull wool over writers eyes. The flag button will ignite stalkers like AIYANNA/ANISHU AAA. Does Triond Care, do they give a hoot?
Triond has been sending us a silent message. Do you know what that message is?
Now, as far as I’m concerned, I’m totally prepared for what Triond may do with me. They may keep the $30 they owe me with my blessing.
I make no agreements with folks who abuse my fellow man. I’m working on my own site now. I intend to speak truth where ever I go. If Triond has a problem with me or if the web has a problem with me, so be it. Banish me!
The Lord God will open another door for me. I shall continue on…
I refuse to be a member of an abusive set up…
Here is an affidavit written by Love Doc, a writer who has been continually stalked on Triond by a cyber-stalker named Aiyanna…
Go here for the unacceptable details and history of Trionds callous reactions in regards to the cyber-stalking Love Doc has endured.
http://www.authspot.com/short-stories/my-own-written-affidavit
If you wish to see professional and forthright suggestions for the Triond ” Flag it” button by veteren writer Jimmy Shilaho, go here:
http://www.writinghood.com/writing/writing-how-do-we-save-this-site-from-itself/
For more objections and common sense responses to Triond’s flag button fiasco, go here:
http://www.writinghood.com/trionds-new-flag-button-epic-fail
For even more proof of the ridiculous nature of the flag button go here:
http://www.writinghood.com/flag-it-button-is-a-cop-out
As for AIYANNA, the Cyber-Stalker, in the name of JESUS CHRIST of Nazareth, whose precious blood was shed on Calvary, stop harassing Love Doc and Jimmy, your fellow writers online…
Update: My friends, we can get free representation against cyberstalking on Triond or elsewhere. The following agency will draft a letter admonishing Triond to protect it’s writers from abuse. WHOA-(Working to Halt Online Abuse) at haltabuse.org should be contacted immediately. Go here to start proceedings and get all info:
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July 17th, 2011 at 9:30 pm
Thank you Marlene for your support. Here is a link to my latest article as well.
http://authspot.com/short-stories/my-own-written-affidavit/
July 17th, 2011 at 9:35 pm
Interesting article.
July 17th, 2011 at 9:51 pm
Thank you my friend for coming to our aid. I do not know from which planet Aiyanna descended but to me she has been living hell and no amount of warning or ignoring has helped. I wish both Triond and Wikinut should banish her for good since I do not understand what her mission is. Creating disturbance has been her specialty, with what intention, I do not understand. I have been married for more than three years now and in that whole period have never cheated or even felt like cheating. Why she follows me around and claims am cheating on my wife is beyond restitution. You are a good writer and a good friend, just like many others on my list. Why she should point you out for bullying is beyond me, why she should feel threatened by your mere presence online defeats me. She claims to be learned but must either be the most stupid of them all or mad to the bone to conjure up what she has been able to. I have never met her, will not be meeting her and do not even dream of meeting her. I would have advised you to ignore her but I know this doesn’t work for she keeps pestering me too. Triond should come to our aid if they really care about writers on this site.
July 17th, 2011 at 9:54 pm
The above is part of the comment I left on Lovedoc’s article on Aiyanna’s conduct. She is one dimwit everyone should beware of. Thank you for the defense, if I were to cheat, I wouldn’t go all the way to Miami in Florida to find a woman to cheat with like she claims.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:13 pm
What a pity about the aiyanna issue, I see Leo has had to change his profile name above.
I don’t know much about Aiyanna but I am glad Triond has introduced the buttons. I hope if they read this, they ban or block her from the site.
This article will help many online friends. Thanks.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:15 pm
An excellent and powerful write Marlene. Thank you for spreading awareness.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:15 pm
Wow I have seen the abuse that said writer dishes out and I have to say Triond has no remorse. Kind of like some of my past jobs. I will write an article on this in the future and try expertscolumn they pay more than triond and i have not seen any abuse as if yet.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:17 pm
You are one good co-writer supporter. Thank you for writing this and keeping us informed about this problem.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:44 pm
I haven’t been writing here long but believe the site will never improve until they have human editors who are strict on maintaining a reasonable level of quality. Also anyone who posts abusive comment should be removed. I have my own site as you know and if it came down to it I would only publish there as it has no provision for comments. I do however enjoy the feedback I get on Triond and the friends I have made here, so hope I can continue to publish here and also hope that you, Marlene, continue here. Anyway congratulations to you for speaking out on this important matter.
July 17th, 2011 at 10:49 pm
Thank you Dennis for speaking on my behalf as well.
July 17th, 2011 at 11:10 pm
You have rightly taken your stance Marlene. I commend you for speaking up as the abuse seems to run rampant from the abuser you mentioned. I also agree with Dennis, in that the site needs to have human editors.
July 17th, 2011 at 11:20 pm
Wow! What a powerful piece of writing. It’s sad that people have to resort to cyber-bulling. It’s not cool at all. I greatly enjoyed reading this.
July 17th, 2011 at 11:42 pm
This is a well written article and for someone to be this way is really sick thanks
July 18th, 2011 at 12:06 am
I think that the answer is simple this person probably should take some psyhc meds for real. Seems like this person is mental and has nothing better to do with their time.
July 18th, 2011 at 1:29 am
We need leaders like you who are bold enough to spell out the ills in today\’s world.
This is VERY SAD indeed, and should not be accepted by any of us.
Thanks a lot for the highlight.
July 18th, 2011 at 1:50 am
Good for you, Marlene. Some one needs to speak up against these abusers. I can’t understand why they do it.
July 18th, 2011 at 2:27 am
Thank you, Marlene for sharing this issues!
July 18th, 2011 at 6:33 am
Am sad first of all that we have missed the great works of Love Doc because of this dangerous individual called Ayianna! Causing other individuals mental agony and anguish just because one enjoys exacting pain on another person tells alot what such a person is in real life! Another triond member, Lovely Honey who has been a mistaken Identity and bashed into utter confusion by some lady who attacks him with comments close 1000 words, spitting nothing but fire! This should not be allowed to continue, and am glad you brought this out!
July 18th, 2011 at 7:44 am
Good for you for speaking out. While those comments can be removed they are still hurtful and vengeful.
July 18th, 2011 at 7:57 am
i am so sad but thanks for sharing
July 18th, 2011 at 12:32 pm
I for one always love all the work you do, Leo Tolstoy, and LoveDoc do amongst others – even though I rarely get the time to read and comment upon them.
This spammer sounds like a waste of space who is likely going to use the flag it button for her “own gain” or out of spitefulness. Triond should not put up with that otherwise they are going to lose quality writers.
July 18th, 2011 at 12:40 pm
It is a shame that it has indeed come down to this– although I’ve never really had problems with anyone on Triond I can feel the pain, and I am almost certain that there are two sides to every story– yours Aiyanna and the truth.. not to take away the fact that abuse is abuse.. Love Doc has mentioned it and It had to start from somewhere.. yeah you are right.. this site should be just about writing.. not bullying… Frank
July 18th, 2011 at 1:09 pm
I think the button is useful. I haven’t seen any content that needs to be flagged yet, but sometimes I do, and it’s good to know it’s there in those cases. Many sites have flag it buttons, and have had them, before Google Panda.
Triond needs to take responsibility for the success of the site. If the admin doesn’t do this, they will lose profit.
As to Aiyanna, if others see that she/he can get away with that kind of behavior, they will start to do the same.
July 18th, 2011 at 4:11 pm
Well done Minister, i surprised you haven’t been targeted but apparently that mentionable knows the power of GOD and is fearful of your stance. You are a true champion for justice.
July 18th, 2011 at 6:17 pm
THANK YOU FRIENDS
IF YOU REMOVE HER UNWARRANTED COMMENTS SHE WILL POSTIT THREE TIMES AT A TRETCH ie MAKES IT FOUR HITS AND TRIOND GAINS SO MUCH. ALSO BOTH WIKINUT AND TRIOND PROMOTE HER AS SHE BRINGS IN REVENUE . ALL WORLD IS ABT MONEY. EVEN THOUGH I HAVE DONATED ALL MY FIFTY DOLLARS SOME DAY AS THEY ADD UP TO THE CANCE R SOCIETY THEY DAMN CARE. BOTH TRIOND AND WIKINUT HAVE PARTIALLY CUT OFF SOME LINKS OF MINE …SO I CAN’T POST FREELY AND CAN’T EVEN RECOVER MY UNPUBLISHED WORK.
LET TRIOND AND WIKNUT COLLECT THEIR CASH AND I’M SURE THE TROLLS WILL BE NEEDED BY THEM . I NOW IGNORE AND POST MUCH LESS . IN NEOPOET I STILL SEE 300 FOLKS STILL READ ME HERE THE GUYS/FANS GALS HAVE BECOME SCARED OFTHIS VENOMOUS SLAUGHTER….
GOD BLESS HER IS ALL THATI CAN SAY.
ONCE I HAVE EARNED FIFTY DOLLARS I WILL LEAVE THIS SITE ANYWAY … NEARLY 5000 POEMS . GOD GIVE THE BLIND …WHO SOEVER THEY BE… SOME LIGHT AS THE EDS DON’T CARETO REPLY .AMEN
When shame melts like butter
have nothing else
to their nudity cover
no amount of what you say
on deaf ears
will pass away…
thanks any way
its kind of u
to that say
July 18th, 2011 at 7:37 pm
I wasn’t aware of any of this. the only spam I see is on my articles with people trying to sell their wares. You people must be fast deleting these offensive comments.I’m very sorry it happened.
July 18th, 2011 at 10:24 pm
Do you have a solution to remedy this person’s actions toward other good writers? Send me an email and I will help if you have a plan ,my friend. This is not the first time triond bowed out of their obligations which is why I rarely write here anymore.
July 18th, 2011 at 10:59 pm
Thank you all for your support. I appreciate it.
July 19th, 2011 at 2:37 am
As I have observed, those who plow evil and those who sow trouble reap it. -Job 4:8 Let her reap what she sowed.
July 21st, 2011 at 8:03 am
This is simply ridiculous and should be stopped already. Cyberbullying has a very harsh impact on those and should be stopped at all costs.
July 22nd, 2011 at 10:38 am
This is very bad to know among our triond community such evil comments.
July 24th, 2011 at 9:10 pm
Minister Marlene, I would like proof of the cyberstalking as I need to prove the same in the court of law. I am not Udi to go with the bunch of you on hearsay.
This case is a police Case and and International one as the material on the site was US Copywright protected. So Udi deleting the website has come under copywright infringement and that does mean I am going to be filing a litigation suit against Triond for you and your team spreading malicious rumours. I would suggest that you brace yourself as I have asked for your IP addresses to trace out your true identity and then slap you with a Character Assassination and defamation lawsuit…
I warned you about this…. If you kept pursuing the case….
Its already with the cops and with the US Copywright infringement bureau. So now go and ask your friends to prove that I am a cyber bully.
Read more: http://webupon.com/web-talk/cyberstalking-how-writers-can-get-free-representation-against-cyberstalking-on-triond/#ixzz1T4TYAAcd
July 24th, 2011 at 9:25 pm
With Regard to Stupid Rose Lovely Honey I had a call from him in October stating that his wife had met with an acciedent in Ocotber and he needed me to complete his Java assignment for University out here in Auckland. I completed the work with the help of my husband. He subsquently accused my husband of plagarising and broke my marriage as we had incessant fights because of that and then my husband ended up walking out on me.
He then asked me to learn him and I did. The comments out there were part of the who thing of learning as he wanted to leave married cheats like you behind. I know you are not a priest and if you are really one, please produce your Ordained Certificate and the denomination too as I don’t trust the lost of you after what Lovely Honey, my best friend subjected me to with his mistress Marilyn Munro ie. They are none other than James Hukuimwe and Trisha Whalley of Telecom New Zealand.
Got any more to say???
Office politics at its best as I am a business person with a Vodafone sponsored called http://www.looksy.org which makes is a corporate struggle between two telecommunication giants…