Are You Living Life Without Bias and Hatred?

Posted on September 9th, 2012 in Writing by vijayanths

Most of us live with a lot of frustration, dissatisfaction and unhappiness. We live with bias and hatred. We have our own perspectives and we will never change. We always think we are right and others are wrong. We can never admit our mistakes. If people don’t accept our views, we hate them. We hate people just because they don’t love all that we love. They don’t hate what all that we hate. Life is short. Is it worth to live life with bias and hatred? Please keep reading…..

Live without bias: We are raised with many biases. We think our religion is the best though we know a little about other religions. Similarly we consider our nation, language etc., are the best although we hardly know anything about other nations, languages etc. We take sides and support our dear ones in a dispute or fight. Bias can be due to the positive or negative impacts on our lives. For example, just because Triond doesn’t recognize my work, I should not criticize it. However, healthy criticism is always welcome. If I find Triond’s faults with a genuine interest to improve the quality of the site, it’s absolutely fair. On the other hand, just because Triond recognizes you as a star writer, if you don’t point out their mistakes, it’s totally unfair. People who don’t know anything about Astrology simply say it’s stupid. Why people try to judge others and things when they know a little or nothing about them?

Live without hatred: I can’t understand why people are holding grudges and living in hatred. It implies they are living in the past. Remember, you can never be happy if live in the past and worry too much for the future. Wise people live in the present and they enjoy the present happily. If only we could pray daily like this, ‘ God, please give me only one wish, I should never hate anyone even in my dreams’, this Earth will become a Heaven. Life will become an absolute bliss.

Summary: Holding grudges will take you nowhere. It will only make you live in hatred and misery. If you are biased, it will neither help you nor the person or thing that you support. Life is short, too short to live with such miseries. Thanks for reading.