The Use of “Had Better” and “Should”

Had better is used to express suggestion or advice that is specific. For general advice, the word “should” is often used.

Had Better is followed by infinitive without to.

Take a look at the example below:

• You had better go right now. (I think it is better for you to go now.)
• I had better meet her tomorrow. (It is better for you to meet her….)
• You had better study hard for the exams. (I suggest you study hard.)

HAD BETTER is often contracted to [‘d better]. See the example below.

• You‘d better go right now.
• I‘d better meet her tomorrow.
• You‘d better study hard for the exams.
• We’d better not tell others about what happened.

Negative form of HAD BETTER:

The negative form is not placed after “had” but it is inserted after “better”

• I’d better NOT go by taxi to the airport.
• We’d better NOT start the meeting without the boss.
• You’d better NOT go alone.

“HAD BETTER” often gives the impression that if we do not do as suggested some negative events will occur.

• We’d better hurry or else we’ll be late for the test.
• I’d better meet Lutfi now or he’ll be angry with me.
• You’d better not disappoint her or she will find another man.
• You’d better not disturb the dog or it will bite you.

For general advice, “should” is often used. Take a look the sentences below.

• You should drive carefully.
• You should not listen to gossips.
• I should respect older people.
• You should follow the traffic rules here.

BE BETTER OFF (+ VERB in the ING form)

The expression of better off is also used to give advice or opinion. After “better off” the verb in the ING form is used. Practice the example below:

• You’ll be better off leaving without him.
• I think you will be better off working in the private sector.
• Will I be better off having long hair?